The owner's home has no things-for-me list #2738

Part of the former #2665 (the owner: "i really really hate the things for me on the home screen").

Done:

• [ ] the owner's home renders no for-you, asks or things-for-me list or count. The items stay on their own page, linked from the top bar without a count badge
• [ ] test: the owner's home with six open asks contains none of them
• [ ] before/after looks in the pull (the look pictures /)

Parked by the crew: the check failed and the decider saw no point in another try (pull #2756 closed). Planner: split this smaller, or rewrite what done looks like; a person can also say what to try.

Parked by the crew: the check failed ("the planner declined, waiting for a person > a decline is an ask for the owner, with the planner's words, and nothing for a reader") and the decider saw no point in another try (pull #2758 closed).

Parked twice since a person last spoke here, so it is the planner's now. Every reason:

1. the check failed and the decider saw no point in another try (pull #2756 closed)
2. the check failed ("the planner declined, waiting for a person > a decline is an ask for the owner, with the planner's words, and nothing for a reader") and the decider saw no point in another try (pull #2758 closed)

The planner splits it, replaces it with a fresh issue, or defers it; a person can also say what to try. Nothing starts here until then, and the board lists it.

State: replaced by #2764. Both pulls were stopped by test/planner-declined.test.ts, which expects the planner's decline on /, the very thing the owner asked to remove. The fresh issue moves that expectation to the asks page and says so.